31 January 2013

Yesstyle.com

I don't do online shopping.
Neither do I buy stuffs online.
Simply because I don't really trust online things.

But my latest addiction now is... YESSTYLE.COM
Which is an online shopping heaven for young asians.
This is the official website for yesstyle >>  http://www.yesstyle.com/en/home.html

Thanks to Gerald's recommendation, I've successfully got myself addicted to the website 100%.
It has become a "must-open-daily" page and I will always open the page together with my facebook. LOL.

This page includes the latest fashion and items from famous brands in Australia, China, Hong Kong, Japan, South Korea and Taiwan.
They offered all high quality and beautiful items.
They even offered weekly deal on different brands every week. Which means that you get to enjoy up to 80% discount on selected items.
Plus, it not only includes female items, they are also selling male items.
So the page is perfectly suitable for both gender =)

It's a huge trap for people who enjoy shopping.
The variety of clothes are so many you cannot even finish looking at them in a day.
Not only they had clothing on their catalogue, they even have, pants, skirts, caps, bags, shoes, accessories, to certain little cute items, etc etc etc.
I cannot even believe that it can change my mode from "annual shopping habits" to "monthly shopping habits". LOL.

I've been influenced and drowned by the korean wind since N years ago.
Slowly, I am getting the love of korean fashion line.
But due to their clothes are more to long sleeves and thick knitted clothing or thick hoodies.
I usually prefer to browse at Taiwan and Hong Kong fashion line, which has more choices that fits me.


One of my 2013 new year resolution is to upgrade my appearance =)
I wanna look better and have a better presentation of myself in terms of appearance.
Found a lot of awesome ideas from yesstyle =)
Happy shopping at yesstyle ya'll =)

New Year New Life New Aim New Self

Happy New Year 2013
This blog has been dead for quite some time.
Someone have been reading my old posts in my blog lately.
And I came to realize that there are actually people reading my blog and even leaving comments.
Thanks for the support to all of my anonymous readers out there =)
It actually triggered my system and felt the urge to write again =)

Many things had happened in the past year.
And basically I was too busy most of the time I don't even had sufficient time to sleep.
What more to sit down calmly and drop a few words in my blog?

Anyway, it's a brand new year and I have tonnes of plans inside my head.
Hopefully I can do it all in this year and start hitting my achievements =)

Will try to trace back all my happenings in the past year and of days to come.
Hopefully I got extra hands to record down each happenings here in my blog =)


Cheers to all. See ya around' =)

讓男人欲罷不能的8 種女人

One of my major 2013 resolution is to improve and be a better me =)
男追女,很普遍。不論感情成功否,男人都不會怎麼太在意。而女追男似乎不太普及,一般的感情事如有發生,不得不承認此女子有超越其他女人的勇氣。其實說來說去,只要你有足夠魅力,男追女也好,女追男也好,都容易多了。

讓男人喜愛,以至達到膜拜地步的女人,及其少有,她們一般具備類似特徵。

一、站在你的位置考慮問題

印象中的戀愛中的女人,多喜歡撒嬌,是符合邏輯的。但如果能明白事理,其魅力必然大增。學生時代的你,不會為沒有經濟來源的你強行夠買奢侈品而心寒。工作時代的你,不會出現因工作的繁忙而忘記掛電話給她的埋怨情形,也不會在你工作心煩的時候要你甜言蜜語。

二、對你總是認認真真的

人做事最怕就是「認真」二字,感情活動中也不例外。你會感覺到她對你的認真無處不在,哪怕是發一條短信。翻出來看看,是不是她發給你的任何短信幾乎不會有錯別字。這正是她很注重跟你在一起時的一切細節,在發消息之前她肯定是反複確認好幾遍的,措詞、語氣、甚至表情。

三、對你就是夠專一

你選擇了她,是正確的,她確實很好。看得出來,她也許不乏追求者,但是她會明確告訴他們她喜歡的是你,而且不會拿這些人的優點跟你作比較。她會時不時告訴你誰誰誰要追她,看到你緊張的表情,會很滿足地加一句,我心裡只會有你一個人。要知道,這不是她無聊,她很需要被重視。

四、有時喜歡吃醋

既然她緊張你,當然會看到女人圍著你轉時,她會吃醋。但是通常會發生一些細節,發現沒有,她從不會無理取鬧。只是表露出她的一些想法和疑慮,她實在太關心你,在乎你了。當然這個時候你也要有耐性,不要吝嗇說些讓她安心的話。畢竟她需要的只是一句別人聽不到只有她能聽的話。

五、陪著你是她最大的樂趣

你在打球,她也喜歡坐在場邊,一句話都不說,看著你的表現,雖然她不喜歡球類活動。你開心的時候,她很想在你身邊看到你微笑的樣子。你失落的時候,她第一時間在你旁邊安慰你,想破腦袋想幫你。你熬夜到很晚,她的msn 陪你一起亮著。她熬到那麼晚只是在等你。這是她的樂趣。

六、她不會總是要求你先讓步

男生要大氣、包容和遷就時常要表露出來。感情上,有點矛盾是正常的,要磨平大家的創傷總也是需要一個人作出讓步的,這是消除隔閡的最佳辦法。是不是她不會總是要求你先讓步,只是她習慣用些撒嬌的手法,小心翼翼而又真心的,求得你的原諒,還能對她要求些什麼?

七、在她看來,你的就是好的

不放過任何與你有關的信息,融入你的生活圈、朋友圈。結識你的朋友、看你喜歡的電影和書、去你喜歡的餐廳、逛你喜歡的品牌店,甚至笨拙地模仿你欣賞的異性類型。她不是不夠好,而是想變得更好、更適合你,更容易得到你的認可和讚許。

八、她會為你遮掩

有時候溺愛也是對的,至少她秉持著「壞事不出門」的潛規則。她與你家人、同學或者朋友在一起的時光,那種細數或間接道明你缺點的事,絕不會從她口中說出來,哪怕只是玩笑。因為有對你的愛、對你的忠誠,她可能覺得你有些時候那樣做不對,但她還是會設法給你男人需要的面子,幫你打圓場,只說你的好。

30 January 2013

交往10大禁忌千萬不要輕忽

1. 明知故犯
在交往的過程中,一定會愈來愈了解對方,知道對方的喜惡,如果明明知道做某些事會踩到對方地雷,例如對方討厭菸味卻又在對方面前抽菸,即使不是故意去做,或是忘記又犯,次數一多也代表你根本不把對方的禁忌放在心上,久了也就別怪另一半愈來愈來討厭自己。


2. 情緒化、易怒
有人說女人哭起來很惹人憐,但動不動就哭惹人厭,更不用說是過度情緒化或是易怒的人;小編曾碰到一對情侶朋友,女生只因為不知一種火鍋料煮了以後會變硬而質問男生,男生回答那東西煮了本來就會變硬之後,女生就生氣了,最後還演變成一陣大吵,直到現在,小編還想不透這有什麼好生氣的。


3. 把對方的付出視為理所當然
因為愛所以願意付出,像是男生溫馨的接送,或是女生幫男生打掃房間之類的例子,無論是對方為你做多小的事,都應該要放在心上並適時表達感謝,絕不能把對方的付出視為理所當然,甚至因為對方一次兩次不做就生氣,到頭來人家還以為你有公主或王子病。


4. 骯髒、生活習慣不佳
雖然什麼叫愛乾淨、什麼叫髒的定義每人都不同,但是太over也不行,如果你的身上總是散發臭酸味,房間亂到連站的地方都沒有,還動不動就有小強大軍出現,除非遇到一個跟自己一樣“臭”味相投的人,不然可能也會成為分手的隱憂。


5. 疑神疑鬼
疑神疑鬼最常見的狀況就是查勤,一天一通電話可以說是關心,十分鐘一通就是奪命連環call了,我們都不喜歡另一半動不動就問東問西、緊迫盯人,因為過度的詢問或是檢查、跟蹤舉動,其實也隱含了不信任的意涵,而不信任對一段感情來說,是相當具有殺傷力的。


6. 愛拿另一半跟別人比較
每個人都不喜歡被比較,比較成績、比較長相、比較薪水…所以也別拿自己的男女朋友跟別人比較,更不用說被拿來跟另一半的前男女朋友比較!如果男生走在路上動不動就說:「哇!那個女生腿好細,那像妳!」,或是:「我前女友手藝很好,妳咧,煎顆蛋都有問題。」相信女生心裡都會不愉快;反之,相信男生也不會想聽到「誰誰誰都開賓士載他女朋友,我還要自己搭公車。」這類的話吧!


7. 口出穢言
無論男生女生,吵架時就會用髒話罵對方的人是相當糟糕的,代表這個人自制能力不足,氣頭上很難克制的道理我們都懂,但是話說出口就如潑出的水無法收回我們也都學過,一時氣話可能會在對方心中造成陰影,嚴重者也可能瞬間就毀掉兩人間的感情。


8. 不求上進
這裡並不是指要賺很多錢或是有多大的成就,而是至少不要整天無所事事,像是學生時代整天翹課、惹事生非,出社會後,不能吃苦也不願努力、甚至淪為啃老族的人,如果交往的對象是個有目標有理想的人,一定無法忍受這樣的另一半,除非談戀愛的目的只是想玩玩。


9. 雙重標準
總是責怪對方做的事、說的話不符合自己要求,卻沒有站在對方的立場看待同一件事,例如常常干涉另一半的交友狀況,但卻不予許另一半干涉自己,或是要求對方不可以上夜店,自己卻一週去三次等不合理情況。


10. 不願溝通
談感情不溝通是相當糟糕的問題,兩人的相處難免有摩擦,交往期間也不可能都不吵架,但是發生不愉快的事情後卻不願意嘗試了解兩人的問題點或是協調及溝通改變,即使事發過後,下一次還是可能會因為同樣的問題再發生爭吵,長期下來感情隨之磨損,最後難免走上分手一途。

02 January 2013

01.01.2013 - Happy New Year + Triple K Sisters Couple Date + Howey's Early Birthday

1st January 2013.
A brand new day plus a brand new year.
Feeling refreshing and yet it is going to be a very busy day today.
Schedule fully packed with activities.

Gerald and me still feeling a bit tired from the Beringgis Trip.
Haven't been resting properly since that day.
Wasn't actually thinking to go out today.
But, since we've already plan to go ask around for my bracelet, we grab the car keys and head out.

No breakfast for the both of us since morning since we both woke up late.
We are wandering around thinking where to go for our lunch.
In the end, we decided to stop at Foh Sang Luyang.


Cha Sau Egg Roll Kon Lau Ban Mian for Gerald.


Mushroom Chicken Ban Mian for me.

Gerald doesn't really enjoy the food. LOL.
He says it's not tasty and this kind of easy food, he can even do it himself at home. ROFL.
Somemore, with the hot weather nowadays, we are actually sweating while eating at such a hot environment.
Gerald is being very noisy and grumpy about the hot weather, because it's making him sweating like showering. HAHA.

Suddenly, when we are talking and he waited for me to finish my food.
There is this uncle who steps on Gerald's foot without apologizing properly.
He is instantly super mad and talking grumpily towards everything.
I hurry finish my food so that we can leave the stuffy hot and packed kopitiam.

Foh Sang and Luyang is where I spend my baby years growing up.
Therefore, I am very familiar and used to the place and the people there.
But Gerald is complaining about everything especially when he caught some uncles looking at my thighs and ass, since I am wearing short pants.
He immediately hold me closer and angrily stares back at those uncles.
LOLness.
I felt funny, cute and sweet at the same time. HAHA.
Gerald, my yeng body guard *pinch*

We first head down to KK as one of my friend told me that there are a few gold shops in Segama might can help me with the bracelet.
I tried asking two of the shops in Segama, if they could cut my bracelet shorter, sadly, they cannot help.
Due to the different design of the bracelet, they have no idea how to join it back after cutting it.

Feeling disappointed, we left Segama and try our luck in Citymall.
Enter Lazo Diamond and check with the salesperson.
The good news is they have a sifu who can cut the bracelet.
But the bad news is the sifu is in KL, if you want the bracelet to be cut, you have to send it over to KL for few weeks time or even up to months.
Gerald feels it cannot be trusted if the bracelet was to sent out of KK.
So, we eventually give up in asking after that.

We walk around and pass Chatime.
I told Gerald I never tried Chatime before, so he bought me a cup of milky tea =)


Waiting for my drink.


Gerald keep taking my selca.


My Pearl Milky Tea.


WTH Gerald take a spontaneous shot of me, something is wrong with my facial expression, looked so grumpy and sad. LOL.

After walking around for a while, we decided to head back home to rest a while.
Especially Gerald who is feeling extremely tired and sleepy.

The next appointment is at 6.30pm.
We will be meeting the Triple K sisters at Party Play Gaya Street for our planned New Year couple date.
And at the same time, I am planning to surprise Howey with my underground relationship status. LOL.
If she hasn't been absent from our previous couple date during Christmas, we wouldn't have to do this the second time. LOL.
Actually, me and Irean specially plan this couple date for the second time for Howey, not only to surprise Howey with my relationship status, but to also have a relaxing hangout with the girls, and also to have an early birthday celebration for Howey.
LOLness, talking about combo.
I'm not sure how would Howey's reactions are going to be then, will she be able to handle everything? haha.

 5.30pm, Irean SMSed and check for my whereabouts.
I just finished taking my bath by that time. LOL.
She said she has already arrived Party Play with Ho. So early man.
I initially thought they have to arrive so early to arrange the cake with the waiters and waitresses, and to make sure everything is going according to the plan.

Only later we realized that the dinner time is actually set at 6pm, not 6.30pm. ROFLMAO.
Howey then arrived with Jason at 6.20pm, while me and Gerald arrived at 6.30pm. LOL.
Irean is complaining how late and tardy we are, being a little mad for not following the time.
Haha, sorry there but I had a misunderstanding on the time.
If not, we would have been arrived sharp at 6pm.



Gerald taking my photos when I am looking at the menu.

While waiting for our food to arrive, we take some pictures.


Triple K sisters. Too dark. LOL. and wth my arms looked bigger.


Triple K sisters. Front shot.


Triple K sisters. Flash shot.


The Triple K sisters' guys. First shot.


The Triple K sisters' guys. Second shot. Ho always being the funny one.


The Triple K sisters' guys. Third shot. LOL. Bromance pose.


Classic Italian Penne Beef Bolognaise for me.


Traditional Beef Lasagna for Gerald.


A jug of Passion Fruit Drink for me + Gerald.


Signature Dark Chocolate Fondant for Irean.


Braised Lamb Shank for Ho.


Dark Chocolate Creameaux for Howey.

After dinner, Howey and Irean ordered some chocolate desserts for themselves.
While we sit around and chit chat about stuffs.
Me and Irean let Howey guess exactly how long have my underground relationship started.
Given three time of chances, and she cannot even guess it correctly. LMAO.
When we said it's already been 5 months, she open her signature goldfish eyes in disbelief, claiming that she wanna scold and hit me for hiding the truth all this while. HAHAHA.
Today is our third public exposure to my friends.

When it's almost time for the next surprise, I pretended to go wash my hands.
But I am actually going to the bar table to ask the waiter to help serve the birthday cake to Howey.
Back to my seat, and pretended nothing has happen.
And we continue to laugh and talk about random stuffs.

Until.....
The birthday song is suddenly being played in Party Play.
All the other customers are looking around, guessing who could be the lucky birthday person.
We all pretended to look around as well. *fakeness* LOL.

The waiter move forward to Howey's seat.
Deng Deng Deng. He slowly place the cake in front of Howey, and suddenly we all turn around and face Howey, with Irean smacking her arm and say "Howey happy birthday HA HA HA."
Again, we all saw Howey's signature goldfish eyes, still recovering from the shock.
Surprise plan : 100% success.
I hurry move over to Howey's place to take some photos.


Howey's Birthday Cake with a musical candle.





Photo Shots of our lovely birthday girl, Howey.


Birthday girl, Howey with me and Irean.


The birthday girl deserves a lovely kiss from the Triple K sisters. Muacks.


Howey and Irean.


Group Photo 1. LOL. okay Ho is trying to rob Gerald with the steak knife? haha. and I dunno why Gerald is not smiling here. LOL. 


Group Photo 2. LOL. and I don't know why Ho has to stand behind there. It seems as if he looks like the photo bomb. lmao.
After that, we quickly finish up the cake and pay for the bills.
The whole dinner costs us RM 300++ and we are stun for a while.
It took us a while and causes some confusion to calculate everyone's portion.

Then, we head over to GSC Suria for our movie : Upside Down.
Starring Jim Sturgess and Kirsten Dunst.


I initially thought that the movie is Sci-fi + mystery + adventure genre.
So that the guys would not be boring watching romance movie.
Turns out that it was actually a romance story, talking about a girl and a guy who are in opposite worlds, where they fell in love with each other, and how they work out to maintain their relationship.
The movie was kinda boring for me.
I mean, it doesn't really have an interesting climax and suspense.
LOL, Gerald was even bored. haha.

All of us call it a night after the movie ended.
Since it will be a working day tomorrow, we head home right after the movie ended.
Managed to reach my house before 12am.
But, suddenly Gerald walk down from the car and said he wanted to check something at the back of the car boot.
I waited for him to return so that we can talk a little before I go up.

Suddenly he open my door and hand me the bouquet of flowers.
Leaning forward he said to me "laopo, for you."
I was instantly stunned.

This is the first time I am receiving a bouquet of flowers.
Previously, I always take photos with other people's flower bouquet because it was beautiful and lovely.
and I have always love flowers especially roses. awwwww.
Never expected that I would receive one of my own in such an unusual day. hahaha.

My mum was actually standing at the balcony watching everything from upstairs.
I always check my balcony whenever Gerald stops his car downstairs after the "SMS incident". LOL.
That is why he was leaning forward towards me when he stand at the open door, with one hand resting on the car roof.
To protect his face from my mum's view on top. HAHAHA.
I actually love his pose like that. so yeng. HAHAHA.


LOL. okay ignore my ugly sitting pose.

Gerald then enter back into his seat and we continue chatting.
I keep on asking him when did he get the flower when he was with me since morning.
Somemore putting it at the back of his car boot.
Reminds me so much of those dramas and movies where the guy always do it to catch the girl's heart. HAHAHA.
Gerald's version is only lack of the flying away balloons. LOL.

With such big bouquet of flowers, I predicted that it is surely very expensive.
I asked him questions over and over again, just to check how much is the price of the flower and how did he managed to get the flower and prepare everything.
I know he purposely told me that it's cheap due to the special offer or package, just to satisfy my curiousity.
I knew it because he literally destroy the receipt right in front of me when I insist of grabbing it away from him.
LOL. With the last important proof destroyed, therefore I cannot prove any of my hypothesis.
Evil Gerald. LOL.


Taking a couple photo together before I leave the car.



 A bouquet of 18 roses  

The meaning of 18 roses is "Stay young and beautiful, trueness, sincerely"
I love it very much laogong =)
Thank you for the sweet surprise =)
Muacks. XOXO.