分手後不要問的七個問題

今天一开FACEBOOK就看见朋友POST的一个电影预告片断，几年前看了《早熟》让我印象深刻，现在他们再度联手合作，拍了《分手说爱你》，让我很期待这步电影。。。

里面数说的这个 BREAKUP CLUB，我好奇的去看了看这网站，结果给我发现了一个叫“王子” POST的日记：



分手後不要問的七個問題

王子 發表 於 2010.06.29 | 136 次瀏覽 | 0 篇回應 |

不要問：為什麼要分手？
無論答案是什麼，都是你難以接受的原因。

不 要問：你有沒有愛過我？
愛過如何，未愛過又如何？總之這一刻就是不愛。

不要問：我做錯了什麼？
愛不是講對錯，而是講感 覺。
相愛是談情，不是講理，當愛的感覺已經不存在，對和錯又可以挽回些什麼？

不要問：我有什麼不好？她有什麼好？我有什麼比不上 她？
何必逼對方再一次侮辱你、打擊你的自信心

不要問：難道你不記得我們以前快樂的日子了麼？
他（她）要離開，就是因為他 （她）要的是現在的快樂和將來的快樂。

不要問：不如我們重新來過？
這個哀求只會令對方覺得你更可憐、更卑微

不要 問：我們以後還可不可以做朋友？
這樣拖泥帶水，對方只會感到厭煩。

分手時，沉默是最好的問題，也是最圓滿的答案

不 愛了

連回憶

都是負荷



谢谢你，王子~ 你的一番话， 让我瞬间清醒了，虽然痛在心里，可是我知道我不能再对他留恋些什么希望，生活还是要继续，跌了就要站起来，时间会治疗一切，你只需要勇敢坚强的面对伤口，一切伤心痛苦的过去，就让他过去，不要再回头看。。。面对第二次分手的我， 我想我这次做对了，以上七个问题我都没有问过他，因为我知道沉默就是最好的圆满答案，再多说真的也没有意思了。。。

FLY mini pump event!!

"Eeeee! Grace!!!" exclaimed FLY in excitement!
Everyone was shocked to see me there after I disappeared from PUMP for 3 weeks~
maybe I need a break from all those tiring work and study after all? or it was just a lame excuse for everything?

Anyway....
"Why you will appear at here geh?" "How do you came just now?"
Everyone seems to be in "couldn't believe it" state....
so I just simply answer them "owh, just passing by, no worries".....lol -.-||

By the time I arrive at the cafe, they had done their eating, but I wondered what were they talking about, until Cubex and Zam started to camwhoring themselves? @.@"


Later, they even fooled with the "mamarazie" >.<" Come on man, look at the camera~
Ah ha!! Gotcha!


okay, enough with the camera thingy, let's go PUMP~ FLY was like the VIP of the night, but yet she was bullied by almost all of us, haha~ which is what they always liked to do~

took some videos showing FLY playing with some of the pumpers, but there are some funny ones~ including a video showing all the fansu in action, and another one where she lost grade to Cubex and end up being boo-ed by the pumpers, all shouted "PERAK LEGEND LOSE!!" haha~ poor FLY~ Wait til I finished edit those precious moments videos, then I will upload all to Facebook k~ don worry, I will tag you all in it, so you wont missed a thing~ hahaha~

while some videos are being processed, let's see what all the fansu are up to??


Okay okay~~ enough with the fansu + camera thingy, time to get wet and soaky with PUMP business~



FLY~ it's good to have you back here in KK! FLY mini pump event is just a beginning of the story~

Fansu-ians : "FLY, we don wanna look at you if you are the one who is holding the camera! blerk ;P"

寂寞，好了？

今天又看到他了。。。今天的他很开心 ，整晚满脸都是笑容~ 看得我也很开心。。。一个月没见 ，他整个人好像开心了很多。。。我想应该是压力都跟着SUKMA一起过去了吧。。。。

开开FACEBOOK，看见朋友POST了一个文章，突然深深感到寂寞的伤感， 好像都在诉说着我自己。。。。


世界上最寂寞的46件事，你有过吗？

1 拿起电话，按下号码后迟迟不敢拨通绿色的按钮。
2 在喧闹的地方，只有自己安静地坐着，不想听别人说话。
3 打电话给故人，故人说，我很忙，待会再说。
4 遇见开心幸福的事情，无人分享。
5 路过一家曾经和喜欢的人一起去过的餐厅，餐厅在被拆除，记 忆也是。

6 夜晚一个人面对黑暗和空洞。
7 想对着喜欢过的人笑，结果却笑着哭了出来。
8 对关心自己的人说，没事，我很好，你放心。
9 给自己削苹果，想起曾经有个人为你剥开一个芒果时候的微 笑。
10 看一部压抑的电影，想哭却哭不出来。

11 夜晚一个人坐巴士，看路边的不停变换的灯光、树和行人。
12 听到一句熟悉的歌词，想起某个曾经说要守护你，现在却不 在身边的人。
13 一个人看电影，吃爆米花。
14 放假的时候，站学校某处在天台上，看天空以及空无一人的 道路。
15 吃一道菜，想起有人说，要为你学会它，为你做一辈子。

16 看见似曾相似的背影。
17 洗衣服的时候，想起他为你晒衣服的样子。
18 大热天在空调房里，记起有个人，曾经为你大汗淋漓奔走， 只为你一笑的情景。
19 鼓足勇气故意发错一条信息给想要联系的人，第二天醒来， 仍然没有他的消息。
20 有人对你说，你真像个小公主，想起曾经有人真的把你捧得 像公主。

21 尴尬地遇见一个喜欢你，你却明白自己永远不可能喜欢上的 男生。
22 对迎面走来的朋友微笑，朋友却没有看见。
23 想起年幼的朋友，现在却不再联络。
24 你说笑话，身边的人不笑，却想起有个人对你说，我是觉得 你讲笑话的样子很好笑。
25 想要打个电话给父母撒娇，话到嘴边又咽了回去，因为不想 让他们担心。

26 冬天的时候，在寒风中，裹紧自己的大衣。
27 蜷缩在被子里睡觉。
28 做梦梦见一个人，醒来却只有自己一个人。
29 公路两边树上新长出绿色的叶子，欢腾而热闹，但热闹是他 们的，你什么也没有。
30 穿高跟鞋脚疼，一个人扶着街边的树脱下鞋子。

31 东西坏了，自己不会修，又没人帮你修。
32 电影散场，你等的人却仍然没有来。
33 精心安排了很久的约会，到了临近对方却回答没有时间。
34 一个人拍大头贴。
35 睡觉前，收不到晚安的短信息。

36 难过的时候，不知道给谁打电话比较好。
37 明明不舍得，但却必须扔掉过去有关记忆的东西的那一刻。
38 对他说，我过的很好，你也要过的好。
39 对于别人的伤害，无力去计较，根本不想计较的时候。

40 每天醒来必须忘记昨天的不愉快时。
41 逛商场时看见美丽的东西，想要买给他，却再也不能买给 他。
42 看见穿着情侣装的恋人牵手过马路。
43 为了忘记一个人剪头发，更新身边物件。
44 打开日记本，看见里面都是一个人的名字。
45 有一堆明明不敢面对，却又不舍得删除或者销毁的照片。

46看见一个很像你，经历着和你曾经一样故事的人。


46件事里， 竟然有40件事是自己亲身经常体验的。。。平时在别人面前老是一副坚强没事的样子，难道只是拿来掩饰自己的伤心落寞，免得身边的人担心的戏码？难道我一直都在骗我自己吗？

昨天发现他早已在网上删除掉我们俩一起拍过的相片， 或许他早就把我的所有给抛在脑后忘了， 我也不应该再对他留下任何希望，伤口已经痛得不能再痛了。。。我以为我早就已经习惯了一切。。。。今天下车前让我听到一首歌；虽然眼泪没有滑落，回头还是会想想我们俩所有的点点滴滴。。。

Why did they named it "karate" instead of "kung fu"?

I want braids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The first thing I saw in the movie trailer, all I think about was the cornrows on the kid's head....I always wanted cornrows like that since I was in secondary....but not a single family member or friend who knew how to do it.....

When Paul mentioned that the kid actor name was Jaden Smith, I was like @.@.....Will Smith's son?! No wonder Will Smith was one of the producer of the movie.... but why does he looked different here in the movie? I remembered Jaden with afro hairstyle, which I don really like it, now when he got himself cornrows, owh man, he's so damn cute!

I always love cornrows! and I love cute guys with cornrows, just like Tae Yang.....awwww *blush* I told myself I have got to watch this movie! few days ago, Sarah even post something on my facebook that goes "gal, u watch karate kid dy??? their dance machine is AWESOME!!! punya syiokk.." WHAT?! dance machine?! this in an instant made me wanted to watch it even more badly!

I was thinking to go watch it on Wednesday night, which is cheaper since it's movie day....but sadly I am not convenient to go out that night....so I have to postpone the plan....and since I cant find anyone to watch it with me, I actually plan to go watch the movie alone!

Finally, it's Saturday and I certainly don have the mood to work, it's weekend beybeh! and today, I decided to go watch karate kid! I must watch it today! So I randomly post a status on facebook, asking who will be interested to go watch the movie with me....since I'm alone..... surprisingly, I got different reations from some of my frens.............FUNNY!

In the end, I end up going for the movie with Paul! Chin was busy with his shop so he cant join us today.....we tried our luck at Growball centre point and sadly the 2pm show is full!! Owh man, I didn saw this coming! I wouldn wanna give up, so I said "do you think Suria have seats for us?" paul said we can give it a try, and off we went to Suria GSC....and YES!! we were delighted to find two nice seats for the 2:50pm show!
The movie was awesome!! I gave it a 9 out of 10 star rate! where did the 1 point lost to? There was this last part of the movie where you can obviously see Dre's feet not hitting Cheng's face.....if it was to be taken in a slighty better angle, everything will be perfect! Overall, the storyline was superb! The actors and actresses...just one word, fantastic! I saw the dance machine Sarah!! I hope Sabah have something like that!!! IT WAS AMAZINGLY AWESOME!!!! Gosh, my words of astonishing couldn stop to be murmured throughout the movie....LOL! Jaden is a good dancer! awwww man, LOVED HIM SO MUCH IN AN INSTANT!!

There was a part of the movie where Jackie Chan cried, it made me cried as well, I'm not sure was it because I thought of him, or was it because I thought of my life for the past 22 years.....No matter what was the actual reason behind, I know the one meaningful line he said had gave me strength inside:
"Life will knock us down, but we can choose to stand back up, remember, be stronger!"

Sukma XIII 2010

The day I used to mention has finally arrived.....

SUKMA XIII 2010 it is~ guess what? yes, you all are right about it, I guessed the whole world knows about it, he represented Sabah in table tennis event.....and for all this crazy months, he has been training hard for it....is this the main reason our relationship falls apart?

Sukma this time was held in Malacca, did anyone know if the Sukma opening ceremony was shown at our local television station live? I just found out I slept through the whole night when the opening ceremony was taking place, I asked my mum if the television has any live telebroadcast, and she said "macam ada".....I was pissed with my sleeping habit, as I sleep like a pig, and I have "sleep dead" habits.....which means once I sleep, I am hard to be woke up.....I told myself to look out for the opening ceremony cuz television might just broadcast it live~

I cant believe I'm more crazy with FIFA 2010 than SUKMA XIII, I mean.....who wouldn? hahahaha~ hey! anyway..........I hope to see him by chance thru the television but sadly there's not even a chance to see the event showed on television....I tried to check online if there are any online live by chance, or even an event highlight would be enough already~ yet I still cant find any.... I came to know that Sabah's team will have their opening match on 15th june'10.....then I even saw his comment on facebook saying that table tennis event will have no broadcast or event highlight on the television.....well, that's a sign telling me that I shouldn't be crazy over him anymore~


Today I saw his face the first thing early in the morning when I opened facebook! surprisingly his face showed up on the newspaper, haha, was happy for him, but when I read the content of the news, Sabah's team had actually lost to Perak 2-3, sad to hear that, this only means that he cant play for the team anymore as the team had to stop their journey and not even qualifying themselves for the top 4~ wondered how is he feeling right now.....maybe he got dissapointed for not playing for any medal, but I think he was happy n satisfied with his performance as he contribute one winning point for the team.....

He finally achieved one of his dream, which is to play in the SUKMA for Sabah's team.....maybe he wished to play more for the team, at least to get a medal for the states, as he has undergone so many tiring hard work training all this months.....but anyway, I think he wont give up so fast, he will surely try and work harder next time in any tournaments to come, for I wont forget.....he was the one who teached me the "not give up" sportman spirit......

Gambateh always! I'll never stop supporting you!

生日看爱情 :

1/2－1/11 橙　　　　1/12－ 1/24柠檬

　　1/25－2/3水蜜桃　　　2/4－ 2/8 啤梨

　　2/9－2/18 青提子 　2/19-2/28 椰子

　　3/1-3/10 芒果　　　　3/11-3/20 火龙果

　　3/21 黑提子　　　　　3/22-3/31 车厘子

　　4/1-4/10蓝莓　　　　4/11- 4/20 西瓜

　　4/21 - 4/30 香蕉　 　5/1-5/14啤梨

　　5/15-5/24 哈密瓜　 　5/25- 6/3牛油果　　

　　6/4–6/13蜜瓜　　　　6/14–6/23 士多啤梨

　　6/24菠萝　　　　　　6/25 - 7/4 苹果

　　7/5–7/14 橙　　 　7/15–7/25 柠檬

　　7/26－8/4 水蜜桃　 　8/5-8/13 啤梨

　　8/14- 8/23青提子　 　8/24-9/2 椰子　　　

　　9/3- 9/12 芒果　　　9/13-9/22 火龙果

　　9/23木瓜　　　　　　9/24-10/3车厘子

　　10/4-10/13蓝莓　　　10/14－10/23 西瓜

　　10/24-11/11 香蕉　 　11/12-11/21 哈密瓜

　　11/22-12/1 牛油果　　12/2–12/11 蜜瓜

　　12/12–12/22士多啤梨　12/23－1/1苹 果

　　

　　测试结果：

　　柠檬：慷慨／幽默　　

　　认识你的人，相信一定被你那幽默的性格所吸引，只要有 你的地方，就一定会找到开心的泉源，而且经常会遇到不同 的恋情，对方大多会被你那风趣的性格所吸引；对于爱情， 你认为合则来，不合则去，就算多么喜欢对方，如果互相之 间性格不合，是绝不会拖泥带水的，对一些人来说，可能会 觉得这样太没有人情味，但在另一方面来看，可以说是爱得 潇洒，在你内心，最盼望就是能与一个志同道合的人恋爱，互相 之间能自然地走在一起，相处得舒服便最好。

　　柠檬拍拖秘诀：与柠檬的人拍拖，切记不要与她(他)争 辩，因为柠檬认为自己是舞台上的闪亮星星，虽说平常的日 子风趣幽默，但一旦恋爱，便希望对方能够处处为自己着想，要 求伴侣很高。

　　水蜜桃： 专一／怕寂寞

　　　　水蜜桃是一个最典型的完美主义者，对于感情较倾向 于柏拉图式的恋爱，面对自己最喜爱的人则充满着慈爱、包 容及专情，因为你深信爱情的真正意义，是能够为对方着想， 全心全意照顾对方；对于所谓的物质享受并不在乎，只会 期待一个能与自己心灵沟通和活泼可爱的情人交往，就算是 一些特别的日子，例如：　情人节、圣诞节，也不会要求对 方大肆庆祝，反而送上一张充满罗曼蒂克又用心用情的心意 咭还有意思。你很害怕寂寞，就算情人不在身边，也要有朋友陪 伴，物质生活反而是其次，最重要是对方在身边.

　　与桃拍拖秘诀：水蜜桃最怕情人虚假，所以要获得水蜜桃 的心，一定要表现得率性不羁，能保持着自己原始不修的真我便 最重要。

　　啤梨：　犹豫　／　自信不足　　

　　自信心不足，不论做事或谈情都处处显得犹豫不决，既怕 自己不够好，也对对方没有信心，最后令到对方望而却步。 在你眼中的爱情世界，天长地久是没有可能的，因为你会觉 得这个世界中，每一个人，每一天都会改变，就算一刻两人 互相有爱火，那只不过是一瞬间的事，有许多环境因素或人 为因素，都会令到双方感情告终；不过有机会遇上一个自己 喜欢的人，啤梨那全心全意投入的表情，却也是无人能及。

　　与啤梨拍拖秘诀：要令啤梨对伴侣充满信心，相信时间是 最好的方法，因为只有时间，才能证明到两人的爱情是否经得起 考验，而耐性也是不可欠缺的。

　　苹果：　有爱心／需要被爱／触角敏锐

　　爱心泛滥，周遭的人也给你这种苹果性格所感染，所以谈 情机会十分多；在爱情路上除了喜欢付出的同时，你也渴望 被爱，最好能全心全意为你献出百分百的爱。至于你给异性 的第一个印象就像天使一样，毫无杀伤力，因此自然会对你 呵护备至。由于你本身触觉敏锐，对于身边的伴侣、朋友， 甚至无关痛痒的人，你也能看出他们所需而给予适当的「治 疗」，这种性格令你朋友满天下。

　　与苹果拍拖秘诀：要爱屋及乌，因苹果性格的人实在太有 爱心，他们对着任何事物也爱护一番，你绝对要跟随着他这 个指针而行，不妨提出与他一起当义工，他定会对你令眼相看。

　　橙：孤僻，情绪起伏大，柔弱

　　　　性情孤僻，不容易与人建立关系，需要用很多时间才 会相信身边的人；他们长期独处，不喜欢交际，当与一大班 人相处的时候，因为怕受伤害，就立即会像刺猬一样保护自 己，情绪亦因而起伏很大；身边其实不乏对你爱护有加的追 求者，不过由于你过份封闭自己，令大好姻缘因此而溜走， 在此奉劝你不要经常收藏自己，有时候适当地展示自己柔弱 的一面，反而可让对方多点了解你，恋爱之门说不定因此而为你 打开。

　　与橙拍拖秘诀：属橙的你那孤僻的性格，对身边人缺乏信 心，要令你重拾对爱情的信心，必须要令你感到对方有诚意， 那些送花送金的方法，对橙是绝对没有功效的，只要拿出最真的 诚意，一定能打动对方的心。

　　火龙果：自强　／　懒惰散漫

　　　　可能因为贪玩的性格，当谈到工作，你总是懒惰散漫 不专心，认为工作太过沉闷，只会令你快乐的人生变得更加 灰暗。对于爱情亦一样，不是你不想谈情，而是从行为或言 语中，总会予对方不专一的感觉，那爱笑爱玩的性格，予人 不认真及花心的印象，让你的爱情路总是崎岖不平，挫折频 频，在你眼中，爱情最大的吸引之处，是可以有一个伴与你 享受种种欢乐的场面，互相之间能够开心地过每一天，便是你火 龙果最渴望的事，工作反而是其次.

　　与火龙果拍拖秘诀：与火龙果拍拖，切记不可以过份认真， 因为你的认真，会为双方带来极大的压力，一有压力，火 龙果便会觉得这段恋情失去原有的意义，能够自由恋爱，大 家信任对方，不要作出任何强迫的行为，这才是大家相处之道。

　　黑提子： 勇敢 / 独立

　　骄傲又爽朗的黑提子，在朋友眼中，总是成为众人的焦点， 加上你那爱出锋头的性格，常让人觉得有点遥不可及，不 可接近，加上你处事独立的作风，令人感到你是一个非常能 干的人，而且你这种独立的行为，在爱情上亦一样，只要是 自己喜欢的人，就会勇敢向对方表白，不管对方有意或无心， 能够亲口向喜欢的人表白心迹是最完美的事，就算最后结 果未能如愿，也对得起自己吧！此外，你那种心直口快的性 格也影响了对爱情的态度，真诚及坦白是拍拖最基本的条件， 你绝不容许双方之间有隐瞒的事情，不论是好或不好的事， 也应当由两个人一齐面对及解决，这才是恋爱的最高层次。

　　与黑提子拍拖秘诀：要和黑提子成为一对真正的恋人，坦 诚确实相当重要，遇到任何事，也要和黑提子商量，这样黑 提子才会感觉到你对她(他)的诚意，不要老是想着欺骗或 以为不讲出来对大家都会有好处，其实这只会加深彼此的不信 任。

　　青提子：适应力强 / 决断力高

　　　　奔放的青提子，一旦谈起恋爱，很容易会被爱和热情 冲昏了头脑，其它事在你眼中都会变得不再重要。对于爱情， 你的适应能力很高，恋情开始和结束都能自动作出调校， 不会因为一次挫败而令自己变得消极，反而会找机会自我发 泄，虽然有时候予人感觉责任感较差，但爱玩的背后，其实 又需要一个安定、成熟的情人来呵护自己，只要是自己决断了的 事和人，都不会后悔。

　　与青提子拍拖秘诀：自由奔放的青提子，予人感觉热情， 虽然经常主动认识别人，给人轻浮的感觉，但其实内心对于 恋爱非常认真，渴望被人真正了解，所以要与青提子长相厮守， 就要学懂多点耐性，加点爱心认识对方便行。

　　椰子：喜与人为伴 / 情绪起伏大

　　　　天生害怕孤独，经常要有朋友在身边陪伴，性格上也 较为孩子气，对于恋爱，只求开心，很少想及将来，最重要 是开开心心一起。不过遇到问题出现时，很少愿意主动提出， 只懂逃避是你一向的处事作风，而且情绪起伏很大，令身 边的人都感到难以适应，更会吓怕别人，不敢与你亲近。对 于恋人更甚，你认为恋人是自己最亲的人，开心与不开心都 应该和她(他)分享，其实这种想法没有对或错，只是你的 表达方法有点过了火，令对方受不了，最终也会因而离开你。

　　与椰子拍拖秘诀：要与孩子气的椰子拍拖，那对方必须是 一个成熟的人，懂得照顾及保护椰子，椰子能够受到保护， 感觉到有安全感，自然地便会一心一意对你，一段长久的恋爱便 可以因此而发生

　　芒果：忧郁 / 心灵脆弱 / 爱幻想

　　　　芒果天生是一个温柔尔雅的人，对待朋友及亲人也非 常细心，这种性格，会令人觉得份外窝心，加上那懂得照顾 别人的心，常常都会不期然地引起异性的注意，可惜的是在 你的爱情路上，总是无法招架异性积极的追求，你很容易爱 上和自己个性不同的人，而受到伤害，加上忧郁的性格，令 你每次遇上这些事时，都只会不停地受到折磨，甚至令自己 的心灵变得更加脆弱不堪，不过天生拥有芒果性格的你，虽 然被动，但都能抓紧机会和朋友聊天，把自己的伤心事告诉别 人，令受创的伤口也可以很快治疗。

　　与芒果拍拖秘诀：要得到一段甜蜜而长久的恋爱，大家互 相之间必须要由友情开始，经过互相了解后，自然能谱出一 段爱恋来，这更加能避免大家会有个性不合的情况出现。

　　西瓜：独立 / 害羞

　　面对着陌生人，西瓜是显得非常害羞的，可能这与你自小 少与人接触有关，就算是较为熟络的朋友，也会感觉到你是 一个相当慢热的人，要与你成为亲密的朋友或情人，确实需 要很长的时间去了解你关心你，让你感觉到有安全感后，才 会慢慢地把自己的心事和人分享。在爱情路上，你是一个经 常令人捉摸不定的人，与你恋爱，确实需要很长的时间，让你感 觉安全，感觉稳定，关系才可以有进一步的发展。

　　与西瓜拍拖秘诀：不需要刻意的奉承，只要加点耐心，与 西瓜恋爱的第一步，一定要先和西瓜做朋友，给予对方相当 大的耐心及诚意，不经意地把自己的价值观和她(他)分享， 大家互相深入了解，成为好朋友后，成为恋人的机会自然大大增 加。

　　香蕉：热情 / 支配欲 / 妒忌心皇

　　属于香蕉的你，天生冷热无常，被人感觉难以触摸，对自 己和别人期望很高，每每希望可以做到最好，尤其对平凡的 事务就更加无法忍受，喜欢新奇又具有价值感的事情和对象。 对于爱情充满憧憬，在你内心最不喜欢试图绑住对方，因 为你总相信童话般的恋情最能令人心动，希望身边能拥有一 个白马王子或白雪公主，然后甜甜蜜蜜天长地久地爱下去； 表面上，个性极为坚强，但内在的好奇心却令你表现出好强 的作风，许多事都渴望做话事人，做领导者的角色才能让你 真正相信自己的实力，与伴侣之间的关系亦一样，不管是男是 女，都希望可以有能力保护及照顾对方。

　　与香蕉拍拖秘诀：要与香蕉天长地久地爱下去，最重要是 少去阿谀奉承，与香蕉相处，必须先透露出自己的真材实料， 千万别太得意而露出自己极想追求对方的心，这样只会令香蕉感 到惊讶而逃之夭夭。

　　哈密瓜：忠诚 / 作风低调

　　　　脚踏实地的哈密瓜，特别无法忍受胡乱挥霍的事情发 生，非常注重实际性。在爱情上，要哈密瓜做出一些浪漫的 事，相信是非常困难的，因为哈密瓜的你经常认为爱情只是 生活上的一部份，并不是全部，就算失恋过，也应该当作一 个教训，千万不能影响自己的生活、工作，甚至家庭。不过 最奇怪的是，在选择伴侣方面，都非常挑剔，要找一个能逗 你开心的伴侣，你深信坦白是两个人生活最重要的事，绝不可能 有互相隐瞒的事情出现。

　　与哈密瓜拍拖秘诀：捉住哈密瓜的心，最好就是用优美的 音乐感染她(他)，因为哈密瓜对于一些充满艺术感觉的东 西特别有兴趣，只要能对艺术有一点认识及喜欢，相信大家倾谈 起来，也会更加投契。

　　车厘子：乐观，冷静 ，忍耐力低

　　　　聪明又可爱，而且拥有又纯又真的赤子之心，和你在 一起，总会有很多令人意外及惊喜的事，再加上你那活泼开 朗的性格，予人有无穷无尽的精力及魅力，不过某些时候， 总会被误会为随处放电，事实上，只是你喜欢交朋友的性格 令人有误会吧了！在你眼中，对情人有着无限的憧憬及期待， 你希望与爱人的故事就像童话一样纯洁及完美，一个能与 你同甘共苦的人便是你所需，不过奇怪的是，你对伴侣要求 不多，反而一个与你心灵相通，就算不常见面的人，大家的心里 有对方就已足够了。

　　与车厘子拍拖秘诀：必须要有耐性，因为车厘子天生缺乏 耐力，如果伴侣都是一个没有忍耐力的人，那么两人一起便 会产生很多麻烦，与车厘子拍拖，尝试给予多些时间，让车 厘子了解你，你也多点了解车厘子，你将会发觉车厘子的人绝对 是一个外冷内热的小孩子。

　　蓝莓：细心，艺术天份高

　　蓝莓是一个很享受家庭生活的人，闲时最爱就是在家中休 息，种花、看书、听音乐是你最大的兴趣，而且艺术天份颇 高；对于恋人，会是一个非常细心的伴侣，对于伴侣的起居 饮食都会照顾周到，你很强调彼此之间的私人空间，大家互 相之间能够做到彼此信任，彼此给予自由，这样的爱情才是 最珍贵，蓝莓并不会像其它情人般，经常要求对方在身边， 又或是要求每天甜蜜如糖般，因为蓝莓相信一段真正长久的爱 情，是绝不会因为少见面而变质的。

　　与蓝莓拍拖秘诀：要成为蓝莓的伴侣，首先一定要培养自 己的兴趣来，让彼此有着私人的空间，如果能对艺术有着一 股热情及兴趣，相信大家倾谈起来会更为投契，缘份便可因此而 产生了。

　　士多啤梨：坚强，独立圆滑

　　在别人眼中，你绝对是一个能干及独立的人，求知欲旺盛， 点子又多。在爱情方面，若果伴侣只送一种礼物，那只会 让士多啤梨的你感到十分乏味，你最讨厌一些单调而缺乏情 趣的人或事，因为你们深信人生应该多点心思；选择伴侣时， 一定先会考虑对方外表，然后就是性格方面，对于美要求 极高，因为你相信外表是予人的第一个感觉，绝不可以马虎 了事，在性格上，如果够鬼马够风趣，一定能引起你们的注 意及兴趣，大家互相之间一定笑不拢嘴，把玩几天也不厌倦，感 情生活自然如鱼得水。

　　与士多啤梨拍拖秘诀：要与士多啤梨的人恋爱成功，一定 要先为自己准备三面镜子，好让自己成为一个有看头、随时 可以创新求变的人，这样保证士多啤梨会对你产生兴趣，对你爱 不完！

　　菠萝：谦虚，不热情，真诚

　　菠萝最出名的便是那温柔体贴、谦虚又善解人意的性情， 而且你是一个爱家又恋家的甜蜜情人，能够和你成为情人的 话，一定会被你恋家的形象所吸引。在不用工作的时候，你 会把家居整理得干干净净，让家增添一种舒服宁静的感觉。 对于爱情，你不会去购买一些昂贵的东西给伴侣，反而你认 为一首诗、一个拥抱都可以令对方感动万分，因为你深信努 力营造感性气氛才最重要；此外，菠萝的你特别重视感情， 最重要是宁愿不谈情，也不会随便去恋爱，对于陌生人是绝 不会随意表现自己，不过当大家熟络过后，你是可以和对方无所 不谈的。

　　与菠萝拍拖秘诀：虽然菠萝的人性格并不热情，但如果你 想追求菠萝，那就绝不可以轻言放弃，因为菠萝的人天生比 较慢热，只要你肯花点心思花点时间，只要缠住不放手，便能得 手。

　　木瓜：老练，冷静，逻辑性高

　　　　成熟、老练、冷静是木瓜的特征，就算遇到多么困难 的事情，木瓜都能够处变不惊地解决事情，逻辑性非常之高； 当谈到恋爱时，木瓜也能沉实及冷静地面对，对于心仪的 人，不会过份地表现出来，更不会宣之于口，反而会默默在 远处观望，祈求对方会看得见或留意到自己，希望总有一天 等到对方，但在你内心，反而觉得这种等待的方法既实际又 浪漫；选择对象方面，木瓜不要求对方有多美，最重要是有 知识，懂得何谓礼仪及修养，大家相处时不需矫揉造作才是最美 好的事。

　　与木瓜拍拖秘诀：木瓜最欣赏的异性，就是那些有内涵的 人，因为木瓜相信这些人才能与自己沟通得到，而且徒具外 表的人，根本不切实际，所以要令木瓜对自己另眼相看，是时候 充实一下自己了。

　　牛油果：进取，自我

　　　　你可算是属于聪明又理智的人，对任何事都抱有实事 求事的精神，对于爱情，许多时候都会以自己为中心，有时 都会令身边人又爱又受不了，加上凭着自己的直觉，对情人 也会过份挑剔极了，尤其比较注重对方的外形和气质。相信 能捕捉到你的芳心，那对方必须是一些既活泼开朗又开心的 异性，这才获得你的激赏，虽然你有时显得懒散，但却又希 望对方表现得浪漫及热情，从你的身上绝对可以用品味绝伦 来形容，因为你思路超凡机敏，你的一言一行也可以吸引到对 方，谈心的机会多不胜数。

　　与牛油果拍拖秘诀：如果牛油果表现较为迟疑，这并不代 表不喜欢对方，只是因为牛油果仍在观察，只要多加把劲，幸福 必然在眼前。

　　蜜瓜：规律，外表冷漠，有品味

　　　　表面上，蜜瓜给永远给人的感觉是冷若冰霜，一点亲 切感也没有，而且生活很有规律，准时食早餐、午餐及晚餐， 对任何事也要求有步骤。对于恋爱都一样，给人感觉有点 固执，旁人休想去改变蜜瓜的想法，不喜欢的就不喜欢，在 蜜瓜的恋爱世界中，渴望自己身边的另一半是一个有学识有 品味的人，最讨厌污秽不堪的人和事，认为这些是俗气而且 贬低身份的东西，找寻自己喜欢的人，就有如挑选一件首饰 般要求高，除了对方要衬托到自己外，也要求对方可以出席大场 面，这样才能显示出自己独有的品味。

　　与蜜瓜拍拖秘诀：外表光鲜、有学识及有品味的人，相信 一定能先吸引着蜜瓜的视线，留下一个好的印象后，大家便 有机会慢慢认识，继而相恋，切记不要在蜜瓜面前吐痰感做出一 些不雅动作，这些都是蜜瓜最不喜欢的。 　　　　

World Cup Fever!!!

Zamina mina eh eh~~~ Waka waka eh eh~~~ Zamina mina zakalehwah~~~ This time for Africa~~~



The song keep repeating in my mind non-stop everyday! I loved Shakira no doubt, but the FIFA world cup fever has strike me 100% no doubt!!

I was even more crazier about world cup compared to 4 years ago~ Fifa 2006 was in Germany and the cup was won by Italy~ I wondered who will win it this year? First, I heard the theme song which was played often on radio and television station~ either it's in chinese or english language....bookie everywhere seems to be ready with betting already, even cafes, restaurants and places with big flat screen tv are prepared for 24hours business services! LOL~ the whole world has been anticipating this for 4 years!

Everything started when I saw the picture where Lisa and Delson were wearing the FIFA 2010 tee shirt.....the moment I saw the clothes, I told myself I have to get one for myself as well! Lisa told me to get it at any Petronas station, and it comes in adult and children sizes! She got herself a children size and it fits her just nice~ Great! I'm gonna get one myself as well!

The moment I stepped in the Petronas Station Mesra, the price of the tee shirt showed RM33.90 and I was shocked in an instant! Lisa told me it was only RM 23.90 earlier and how come this is so expensive?! The adult size tee shirt comes in two dfren designs and colours, I actually liked the black one, but I don wan to spend extra expenses for something not worth it~ if it was sold at RM 23.90, I would have take two pieces~ sadly, the gal told me that the children size only comes in one colour which is white, and they offered two dfren design for it~ *sigh* I took one instead~ same design as Lisa's~
Who do you think will win?" is the most frequent question you will hear everyday, people are placing their bets on the teams they support.....everyone will even stayed up the whole night just to watch the football match, what could make people become crazier than this, none other than FIFA? it's the one month of every four years with the most MCs and annual leaves!

GOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL!!! it's Fifa man! wear that favourite jersey of the team you support and cheer for them! When I saw the jersey on sales at Ngiu Kee, I got crazy over it because it was so cute!! it comes in dfren sizes and you have jerseys of every team on sales! I wanted one so bad but when I looked at the price, my heart sunk in an instant! it's RM69.90 per jersey~ I was like WTF, I couldn possibly buy this! I quickly walk out of the shop before I got more dissapointed, that's why I don like to go shopping with limited budget~

I missed out most of those exciting matches as...... first, I do not have an Astro at home, second, I was so sleepy to stay awake the whole time! I dunno how they did it, staying awake without sleeping for 24 hours or more! they gotta be out of their minds! maybe caffeine does the trick.....Anyway, everyone needs to feel the heat of the world cup! this only happens once every four years, and it was one of the world event that combines the whole world together!

Automatically, you can find me sounded like a football host in my facebook for this whole month....haha~ South korea just gave Argentina their first free goal!!! Yellow cards are seen flying here and there! People are actually rolling inside the penalty box but yet, no one can saves the switzerland's ball! Red card sends south africa's goal keeper out of the match, rewarding winning goals for the opponent!! Anything can happen in the field, the football just slipped from Green's hands and right into the GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAL!!

Tadau Kaamatan 2010

SWT!!! NO HOLIDAY FOR KAAMATAN THIS YEAR!!!

Not only I have to work during this special Sabah public holiday, I even missed out a trip to Labuan! Damn I am so not in the mood! Aaahh~ it's someone's birthday today, Happy Birthday Cubex 69! *LOL*

Haiz, I was feeling so stress of work lately, things are not going so smooth lately, every bits and pieces of the work seems to have problem here and there, it's always doing 9 hours of non-stop work in the office....it was then I realized my lips even cracked sitting for long hours in the air-con room without drinking water! even my face felt the dryness.....

The moment I reached the stairs of my company, it was silence everywhere....Lui Kim Chock have their 5 days of holidays, I must say I am very envy of their long holidays.....I was hoping so much for a break after this long period of torturing working days.....but dissapointment to all 5 staff of Mamee-Double Decker Sabah branch, NO KAAMATAN HOLIDAYS FOR US!

Early in the morning, the first face I saw in the office was my sales executive, Mr. Alex, jokingly he asked me "how come today no holiday o, suppose to be our sabah's special holiday eh, ask Mr. David to give us special holiday la, just say the main gate is not open"....I LOLed in an instant! My new executive has a holiday mind just like us, and he says anything he thought of in his mind, unlike my Area Sales Manager, Mr. David, he never express his thoughts, but even when he keep quiet, deep down inside I know he's thinking the same thing as well....I mean, who wouldn want to have holidays?

Charlie, so good of you to keep me accompany for chit chat thru MSN....haha~ but chatting with you always made me thinking of dance~ oh gosh, you even show me the PUMP freestyle video!



Now, I totally no mood for work anymore~ I wanna just leave everything and go for PUMP~ LOL!! Come Charlie, let's tag freestyle~!

Got a surprising visit in the afternoon, Lisa dropped by to pass me my Jack Daniels! Oh yes beybeh, I loved it so much! The moment I received it in my hands, it made me wanna hug it back home right away! Ah hahaha, I actually cant wait to drink it up, but thinking it twice, I "tidak sampai hati" to drink it.....so at the end, I only took pictures with it and set aside on my room's table~ haha~ wanted to wait for a special day to officially open it~
Anyway, it was worth to buy it from Labuan as it only costs RM 60 per bottle, imagine how much u will have to pay for it here in KK~ even ordering one glass in Upperstar already cost you RM 15.90~ T.T~ so damn expensive to drink outside.....

Gotta say thanks to Lisa and Irean! for bringing all those liquors and chocolates back for me! haha~ I should have followed you all to Labuan, but sadly I don have any holidays at all~ sobs~ T.T
HEY! those chocolates are not for me ar okay, I cant have any chocolates!

I wondered if they have made any birthday party for Cubex? or anyone to celebrate with him today? all of a sudden, a second surprise took place, Audrey SMSed me! which means she is in town! Weeeeeeee~ darling is here~ hahaha~At first I thought she was kidding with me, but then it's real when she asked me not to tell anyone her come back -.- and because of that, I always have difficulties to meet her in person~ haha~ this time, I'm gonna make sure I can meet her face to face....

and so, she asked me out to pump tonight! Yes of course! no matter wat! but I have to leave early, as I'm gonna follow my dad home later~ well, at least we met, and we pumped! wahahahahahahaha~ finally I felt relaxed after a long tired working day~ too bad Daniel went back early, if not we should have pumped together as well, as I didn showed up yesterday~ surprisingly, Jhun and Ruby was there as well! it was surprise to see them at night as they seldom show up at night, especially Jhun who has not been active in pump for such a long time~

Ah ha!! Charlie I saw you today!! LOL~ Cubex was there as well, which I thought he would be at some other places celebrating his birthday....but there's no birthday party or celebration what so ever cuz he don like all those stuff~ he don even like to celebrate his birthday at all~
Everyone were shocked when I left early at 10pm, it was bad to leave without saying "goodbye", guessed I didn like the word "goodbye" huh.....anyway, I noticed Audrey was in a bad mood that night, and she tried her best not to show it out, I can somehow felt it cuz she's my darling! hahaha~ anyway, we talked til my dad came to pick me up, I left everyone so sudden til I actually left behind my water bottle at the PUMP machine~ LOL?!

Funny it can be, I didn really PUMP much that night, just a few rounds with Audrey....then we didn PUMP when everyone showed up......I don't really know what's wrong wit Audrey, she feels kinda uneasy the whole night~