越愛越寂寞 - 橘子Came across this book when I went to Popular Bookstore 2 months ago.
It was featured in the "New Released Book" corner.
The title instantly caught my attention and I knew I just have to get this book.
My friends said that my thinking and talking got too old lately.
LOL, I guessed I've been thinking too much about life huh?
It's been a while since I last read chinese novels.
I find some of the quotes/wordings written inside this book is very accurate in describing about relationship in reality.
" 到底是有爱更寂寞，还是没有爱才寂寞？"
" 愛, 要說, 否則只會遺憾了錯過; 痛, 別忍, 否則, 只會越愛, 越寂寞。"
" 他是我不想承认的存在，却，也是我无法否认的存在。"
" 而，至于现在的我，则，只想要爱得刚刚好。"
" 年轻的时候我会想要爱得浓烈，轰轰烈烈，可是现在的我，只想要爱得刚刚好，不想要再爱过头，不想也不敢也不再愿意在爱里丢了自己。"
" 所谓分手的这件事件从来就不可怕，可怕的只是我们对于分手的想像，过渡想像。"
" 当爱情抽离开来，而彼此的生活也不再交会之后，原来我们无话可聊；毕竟我们曾经相爱，深深相爱。"
" 爱情一旦堕入了现实，就不再只是爱情；最纯情的爱情，永远是最无法实现的爱情。"
" 一份爱到底要走多久，才能越过那段寂寞的距离，从友人变成情人？"
I love how the writer wrote the storyline of this book.
Wondered if this was actually her own real life story though.
The bits and pieces from it somehow reflects on my own life.
This novel is not like the usual fairytale love novel that I used to love reading.
It's more like to normal everyday city love life.
How the main girl character thinks is how I have thought too.
What she said/her quotes are so true that I felt it.
My favourite line in the book would be:
“这个，我在心底爱了他好久的男人， 我知道，一旦放手去爱了，一定就会爱过头，爱到丢了我自己，爱到被感情淹没。”
Seriously, I'm constantly reminding myself to hold on tight everyday.
For I know, I'm a very soft-hearted kind of person.
I will get myself badly hurt again if I let loose of myself.
不敢勇敢的放手去爱的寂寞 = is it true that I'm always hiding & running away when it comes to love relationships??
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